waiting for the right one...a reaction to Shinhwa's (Eric, Dongwan) mention of marriage..!!

there are times that we really wanna find the right person, settle down and start a family on our own...but how can someone start to do so if he's been busy with work and time isn't really his friend as of the moment...


i myself have been busy lately with stuff going on with my life but still managed to get updated on what's going on with my fave kpop group Shinhwa...

i've just read from absolutshinhwa and shinhwa.biz about Wannie's intentions on getting married after 2-3 years time...it's a good news indeed, but, "BUT" my biggest question is "Has he really found the girl he wants to be with or his still on search???"..there's a lot of questions and speculations that sinks into my brain with no proper justification..but all i know that he is ready to get into a serious relationship..i heard he lowered down his expectations and his more on the personality type right now...correct me if i'm wrong...hope his open to getting involved with non-korean women..just my thoughts... :D

with regards to Eric, i guess he's also ready to fall in-love now and eventually settle down, but i find him  to be picky at times..please don't get me wrong guyz, it just my honest opinion...i love and admire leadernim so much, but it just looks like its hard to please him...i know i am wrong with these assumptions for i know nothing of him personally..even though i have these thoughts of him i still do see him as a lover boy, a good man and will be a good husband and father to his future family..as a matter of fact i've also read his tweet and kind of happy and glad to hear that he's open to cross racial marriage..with this note i admire for that..my lips are sealed and my heart flutters..hahaha...

as of the other members of the group, they have't made their opinions about marriage or it's just that i'm just not updated...but what the heck, i guess each of the members are on their right age of marriage and are entitled to their own personal happiness..may it be now or the near future i'll always be on the watch to support each one of them on whatever decision they have for the future...and hopefully they'll found the right one for them.


well, for now i'm looking forward to Andy's and Jinnie's discharge from military service and waiting for the last member to be discharged (Minwoo) for their comeback...SHINHWA FIGHTING!!! :D

building relationships....

in life we can never really tell what's our main purpose here on earth..all we know is that we need to do something to be somebody and to achieve something for ones' self...so no matter what the odds would be, we need to be strong and brave to face any struggles that may come our way..in due time all our hard work will be compensated in the way we deserve...so, no need to worry for one day you'l know your worth...


as a matter of fact we truly value what other people say about us...about our status in the society..others opinions matter to us more and i was one of them...later on after facing reality and opening my mind to what really is ahead of me, i came to the point of actually not paying much attention to what others may say with the exemption of my family, relatives and friends...hehehe...


so for now, i chose to stay on the side where i enjoy what i do ..no more pretensions and hesitations..i'm looking forward to what i love most..building relationships... :D

success, money, power...

how do we measure success???does it have to be based on the payslip or position you have???or just plainly by enjoying or loving what your doing counts a success??? for me it does...coz, no matter how many zeros you have in your payslip or no matter if your holding the highest position in the office..if you do not enjoy what you're doing, for me its still a failure..why so, because there's no satisfaction or gratification you feel...you tend to look for more and forget that there are other things way more important than money and position...


honestly speaking at first i envy those who are rich and are of upper class, because they actually get what they want...but having known some of them opened my eyes to reality..that not all of these people who lives in luxury are happy as we may say it.. yeah, they may have the money they want but to the extend of it all some lose the most precious possesion they ever have and that is their family...


i just wish that each one of us will open our eyes to reality and see whats important to us...


...is about to sleep...goodnight world...

fRiEnDsHiP...

this past few days made me realized how grateful i am to have friends who have been with me for almost 2 decades of my life...i haven't really paid much attention to that..but knowing someone, made me realized that i should acknowledge these little things that gives meaning to life...

yah, time flies so fast now a day and we barely get the chance to even sit down and have a chat...but all i know that no matter what goes on with each of our lives the friendship will forever be there and for that i am thankful and blessed..

well, no words can express how much i treasure you guys...so, let me just say thank you, i love you and i missed the old times...


P.S for my SPN friends sorry wasn't able to locate our old photos...i'll be adding them up if i'll get to grab on one.. :)

thank you!

you have always been there for me
no matter what the calling be
always by my side
no matter what's the tide...


grateful for your presence
much more with your love
what more can i ask
than you by my side...

nothing compares to what you give
its not the material things that i see
but the love and support you shower me...


so till the day i can call you mine
let me just thank you a hundred and trillion times..
for you've been my strength and comfort all these years
and with that i thank you my dear.. love you.. 

marriage?!?!...

when is the right timing???i often ask myself when will be right time for me settle down...i guess when i'll get to meet the man that's meant for me, the one that is destined to stick with me no matter what...after the long wait and  with God's grace i have found the man 13yrs ago...yeah, our relationship has been growing for that long and yet we're not yet married..to be honest i'm not that in a hurry to get married before, but i just realized that i cant stand leaving without this person by my side. i know he's always there to support me on the things i do in life but i want him to be mine and mine alone..so that no one can take him away from me...i may sound selfish, but i guess being in-love with the person who loved you unconditionally will make you think of not wanting to be with him every moment of your life..with that i have decided to embark on the road of marriage and starting to prepare myself to stand on my own with my partner in life and with the family were gonna have..

hope everything will go as planned...FIGHTING!!!! :)

social sites...

any social sites that we have now are a good way of communicating family and friends that are far from home..but this sites can also trigger bad things towards the user/follower...being a user also of  these social sites makes me realize how immature and irresponsible some of the users are..i know these is where we can express our thoughts and opinions freely but we must also think that in every little thing we do there's always a responsibility attached to it..with that we must also know our limitations for at the end of the day be sure it wont hunt us down...these sites are useful but can be deadly evil...

Shinhwa

it all started when a friend told me she's having a blast watching a korean variety show which is WGM...at first i didn't put much attention on to the show, i find it kinda weird but funny..later on on i find interest with one of the the stars, which is Andy..

the show had gained my interest and i was hooked..by then i eventually noticed Andy, since then i wanna learn more about him. and that's the time where i learned about SHINHWA..i may have heard of them before coz i love to watch arrirang, but never got the time to really listen and know them..i started searching data about Shinhwa and the individual members..the truth is i didn't really like them when they where featured at WGM...but watching some of their videos made me appreciate them...eventually without even knowing i fell head over heels in-love with the group...much more when i read some forums..the struggles that they went through as a group and individually..

what really made me admire them more is their relationship with one another..they're more than a member of a group they're like brothers/family...they have been through ups and downs together holding onto each other tightly, protecting and helping one another..i guess that what made them who they are now and that's why i love them...

they may have been on hiatus for more than 3 yrs now, but the long wait is over for they are having their comeback next year and some forums has been talking about it...especially now that they have established Shinhwa company...sure will see a lot of shinhwa by next year as they've promised...so, i'll be waiting for Shinhwa's comeback and hope i'll manage to attend their concert..i'm crossing my fingers..SHINHWA FIGHTING!!!!

nothing much...

just starting out something new and i thought of coming up with a blog..I do not know exactly what to post in here, but what the heck anything that comes my way or anything that might trigger my brain and i wanna blog it i'll just blog it here. So for now let me start by just saying hi and hello! i guess this would be enough for the meantime..i'll come up with a better blog next time..maybe in awhile i'll have something to say or share i'll just post it here for now i guess this is all i can say..