waiting for the right one...a reaction to Shinhwa's (Eric, Dongwan) mention of marriage..!!

there are times that we really wanna find the right person, settle down and start a family on our own...but how can someone start to do so if he's been busy with work and time isn't really his friend as of the moment...


i myself have been busy lately with stuff going on with my life but still managed to get updated on what's going on with my fave kpop group Shinhwa...

i've just read from absolutshinhwa and shinhwa.biz about Wannie's intentions on getting married after 2-3 years time...it's a good news indeed, but, "BUT" my biggest question is "Has he really found the girl he wants to be with or his still on search???"..there's a lot of questions and speculations that sinks into my brain with no proper justification..but all i know that he is ready to get into a serious relationship..i heard he lowered down his expectations and his more on the personality type right now...correct me if i'm wrong...hope his open to getting involved with non-korean women..just my thoughts... :D

with regards to Eric, i guess he's also ready to fall in-love now and eventually settle down, but i find him  to be picky at times..please don't get me wrong guyz, it just my honest opinion...i love and admire leadernim so much, but it just looks like its hard to please him...i know i am wrong with these assumptions for i know nothing of him personally..even though i have these thoughts of him i still do see him as a lover boy, a good man and will be a good husband and father to his future family..as a matter of fact i've also read his tweet and kind of happy and glad to hear that he's open to cross racial marriage..with this note i admire for that..my lips are sealed and my heart flutters..hahaha...

as of the other members of the group, they have't made their opinions about marriage or it's just that i'm just not updated...but what the heck, i guess each of the members are on their right age of marriage and are entitled to their own personal happiness..may it be now or the near future i'll always be on the watch to support each one of them on whatever decision they have for the future...and hopefully they'll found the right one for them.


well, for now i'm looking forward to Andy's and Jinnie's discharge from military service and waiting for the last member to be discharged (Minwoo) for their comeback...SHINHWA FIGHTING!!! :D

building relationships....

in life we can never really tell what's our main purpose here on earth..all we know is that we need to do something to be somebody and to achieve something for ones' self...so no matter what the odds would be, we need to be strong and brave to face any struggles that may come our way..in due time all our hard work will be compensated in the way we deserve...so, no need to worry for one day you'l know your worth...


as a matter of fact we truly value what other people say about us...about our status in the society..others opinions matter to us more and i was one of them...later on after facing reality and opening my mind to what really is ahead of me, i came to the point of actually not paying much attention to what others may say with the exemption of my family, relatives and friends...hehehe...


so for now, i chose to stay on the side where i enjoy what i do ..no more pretensions and hesitations..i'm looking forward to what i love most..building relationships... :D

fRiEnDsHiP...

this past few days made me realized how grateful i am to have friends who have been with me for almost 2 decades of my life...i haven't really paid much attention to that..but knowing someone, made me realized that i should acknowledge these little things that gives meaning to life...

yah, time flies so fast now a day and we barely get the chance to even sit down and have a chat...but all i know that no matter what goes on with each of our lives the friendship will forever be there and for that i am thankful and blessed..

well, no words can express how much i treasure you guys...so, let me just say thank you, i love you and i missed the old times...


P.S for my SPN friends sorry wasn't able to locate our old photos...i'll be adding them up if i'll get to grab on one.. :)